Embalming is sometimes referred to as ‘presentation’, ‘hygienic preparation’ or ‘preservation’.
If you are not intending to view the person and the funeral is happening in the UK, then embalming is not necessary.
Most funeral directors offer embalming, some include it in their prices and may not reduce their fee if you opt not to have it, with some it is a separate, extra charge.
If you want to view the deceased, some funeral directors will assume that you want embalming. Best practice is to ask for your consent, but they may not.
Embalming aims to preserve the body temporarily by draining and replacing bodily fluids with chemicals. It is classed as an invasive procedure.
Funeral directors may recommend it, especially if several weeks have passed since the person died and you want to view them. It may be more advisable in some situations than others, but there is no rule to say that you must have it done.
It can affect the person’s colouring and how their skin feels so if you are considering it, ask the funeral director what to expect. Some people prefer not to have it as they feel it can make the person look less natural.
There can be other things funeral directors can do to make the viewing experience softer, so ask them what options are available.
In some cases, a funeral director may recommend you do not view the body if it has already started to break down. Some people find it helpful to write a letter to the person who has died to say goodbye, rather than seeing them.
Some green cemeteries will not allow embalming, and it is not allowed for burial at sea.
If you are having the body repatriated to another country it will need to be embalmed.
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Frequently asked questions about embalming
What is embalming?
Embalming is sometimes referred to as ‘presentation’, ‘hygienic preparation’ or ‘preservation’. Embalming aims to temporarily preserve the body of a person who has died, using a combination of chemicals.
Are all deceased people embalmed?
Funeral directors may recommend embalming, especially if several weeks have passed since the person died and you want to view them. It may be more advisable in some situations than others, but there is no rule to say that you must have it done. Embalming can affect the person’s colouring and how their skin feels so if you are considering it, ask the funeral director what to expect. Some people prefer not to have it as they feel it can make the person look less natural.
How much does embalming cost?
Embalming typically costs between £150 and £300 though this can vary depending on the funeral director, embalmer, and any additional services needed.
Can I see a person who has died without embalming?
You can view the body of a person who has died who has not been embalmed. Depending on the circumstances of a person's death and the time that has elapsed since, funeral directors may give advice about seeing the person’s body, however, ultimately it is your choice.